[libc++][sanitizer] Enable stricter options for sanitizer CIs

[vitalybuka]

Probably blocked on #127347

Current useful checks

Strict check: ASAN_OPTIONS="check_initialization_order=true:strict_init_order=true"
Maybe: *ASAN_OPTIONS="abort_on_error=1" # without this some tests which expect error exit code may pass
For verbosity: UBSAN_OPTIONS="print_stacktrace=1"

Some time we introduce new checks blocked on runtime flag.
In such cases it could be useful to fix libc++ and enforce those new checks in CI.
No such checks in the momem.