[DataGrid] Use exclude selection model type if quick filter does not have actual values

[arminmeh]

Extracted from #17743

Makes the grid use exclude selection type if quick filter has values, but they are all empty strings

like

initialState={{
  filter: {
    filterModel: {
      items: [],
      quickFilterValues: [''],
    },
  },
}}

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