useGltf error boundary catchable errors

[DennisSmolek]

Related to pmndrs/react-three-fiber#3181

Because ErrorBoundaries are React constructs they fail to catch vanilla errors in the loader call.

1. wrap methods in try/catch and provide a setError method
2. For v10+ r3f setError is available on useThree which will fire the global boundary.

Im not sure of the line number handling but this already works in the new useFrame