unstable options help - ensure no duplicates

[macfarla]

Signed-off-by: Sally MacFarlane macfarla.github@gmail.com## PR description

Fixed Issue(s)

fixes #8661
Also added a test for Unstable options subcommand

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[siladu]

Nice and easy!